My (mostly) weekly thoughts on leadership, high performance, wellbeing and more.
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3 Counterintuitive Retirement Tips for Professional Services Partners
Retiring from partnership in law or professional services firm means deep personal and professional identity shifts. You’ve been operating in one mode for a long time – possibly your whole career in the one place. How to prepare for a new kind of life?
Psst: 4 ways you're unwittingly encouraging a gossipy work environment
I love some tasty spilled tea as much as the next person, but gossip at work is a double-edged sword. As a leader, your actions and attitudes can inadvertently fuel a negative gossip culture. Here's how you might be doing it and what you can do instead.
5 tips for giving feedback to your boss
Need to give some potentially unwelcome feedback to your boss? Some will welcome the direct approach, but often a little tact is more effective.
Here are 5 tips for giving feedback to those above you (or really, anyone) …
The time-wasting allure of “comfort tasks”
As we navigate the corridors of our professional lives, comfort tasks often become soothing and familiar landmarks. They can also be a trap. Here’s why, and what to do about it.
Guiding the Wise: Leading a Team with More Candles on Their Birthday Cakes
You've just landed a leadership role (congratulations!) and your team is seasoned, skilled, and let's just say it, has been around the solar system a few more times than you. They've got experience tucked in their belts while you’re still trying to figure out where the coffee machine is. No worries – here’s what to do.
Gen X lawyers can work with Gen Zs… here’s how
The law firm hierarchy used to be clear: work hard, put in the hours, respect the pecking order, do what you’re told, and await your turn. Not anymore.
Here’s what’s changing, and how to adapt.
How to make your team hate Mondays
If you've ever wondered how to cast a dark cloud over the start of the workweek, I’m here to help.
Here are some top-notch (though not recommended) ways to make Mondays the most dreaded day for your team…
Don’t compare your backstage to other people’s front-of-house
The lights are on, the audience is watching, and there's an expectation to deliver. In these moments, it's easy to gaze across and compare our own behind-the-scenes chaos with the polished performances of our peers.
Here’s why we shouldn’t.
3 Times You Should Listen to Your Gut, and 3 Times You Shouldn't
In the work context, gut instincts are important but shouldn’t be the sole determinant in your decision making.
Here are three instances when listening to your gut feeling can be the right thing to do, and three when it’s not.
5 Questions to ask yourself before that big meeting
Preparing for a crucial meeting?
Elevate your insight by asking yourself these 5 questions.
New to executive leadership? Connect the dots with systems thinking
Ever played one of those games where you connect the dots to reveal a hidden picture? Moving into executive leadership is a bit like that.
One of the superpowers you’ll want in your kit bag is systems thinking.
How do you balance compassion and accountability? You don’t…
I often hear clients ask how to balance driving accountability in their teams while remaining true to their value of treating people well.
Here’s why that’s the wrong question…
Senior executive leadership: 3 traps, and how to avoid them
I’ve noticed three clear themes in the challenges talented leaders face as they approach their first senior executive role.
Here are the red flags to look out for, and what to do about them.
Are You an Accidental Cult Leader?
Some leadership practices verge on the culty…. see if you’re doing any of these!
Ten things your team hates about you
Don’t be a hater-maker… here’s 10 leadership pitfalls to avoid.
5 Secret Fears of Senior Leaders
Senior leaders are often seen as pillars of confidence and decisiveness. However, beneath their authoritative exteriors, these leaders grapple with their own set of fears and uncertainties. Here are 5 of them ...
Yoda’s tips for mindfulness without the minutes
In the style of Yoda and with absolutely no apologies for the nerdiness, here are three ideas to find calm in the busyness of your day, that take literally no extra time.
All you need to change is your mindset…
Most People Aren't Out to Ruin Your Day. How Do You Handle the Ones That Are?
Sometimes we encounter people at work who consistently rupture relationships, belittle others, or straight up lie and scheme their way through the ranks. What to do?
Why you don’t need to sacrifice your life for the promotion
Let's break free from the fallacy that a senior position means sacrificing your personal life…